It's OK to say no by Molly Potter. Illus. by Sarah Jennings

One in a series of books helping children and grown-ups have meaningful discussions about social, emotional and mental wellbeing, It's OK to Say No is organised into questions and answers. Designed to dip in and out of and revisit relevant areas, it is a comprehensive look at asking for, giving and not giving permission. It explains what consent is and how to ask for it, how to say yes or no, how to show respect when doing things that affect others, and what to do when someone doesn't ask you for permission. 

Colourful and inclusive illustrations mean that this book will make all children feel seen and it breaks content down into simple, easy to understand questions. Speech and thought bubbles also help with perspective taking and ways to express or put into words thoughts and feelings. It offers practical advice in the context of relatable situations that show children how to empower themselves, respect and understand the boundaries of others and how to recognise and act when things go wrong. 

While simple, this is text-heavy and there is a lot to unpack. The meaningful scenarios make for great discussion starters or role-play starting points for a classroom or home environment. There is also a 'Notes for grown-ups' page at the back that has shown useful tips for encouraging self-respect and respect for others. Other titles in the series include How are you feeling today?, Will you be my friend? and What makes a family?

Themes: Consent, Respect, Body boundaries.

Nicole Nelson