Introducing Teddy by Jessica Walton
Ill. by Dougal MacPherson. Bloomsbury Books, 2016. ISBN
(Age: all) Highly recommended. Transgender, Being yourself, Friendship, Acceptance. When Thomas the teddy is feeling low, his friend Errol asks him what the matter is. Thomas is usually happy to play and have picnics and go for rides on the bike or scratch around in the garden. Thomas is unsure of what to say and asks Errol to be his best friend no matter what he says.
Thomas reveals that he has never felt like a boy inside but feels like a girl. He would prefer his name to be Tilly. Errol hugs teddy to him, reassuring her that he likes her no matter what, they are still best friends, and Errol calls her Tilly.
Errol decides to call their friend, Ava to come and play. She comes over to the park where Errol introduces her to Tilly, and the two discuss their bows. Tilly no longer wears a bow tie, but uses it to tie her hair, while Ava discards her tie around her hair, wanting her hair to be free. They play all morning, doing the things they have always done, and later go home to play in the garden go for rides on the bike and when they plan a picnic call Ava to come over with her new friend, a robot she has built.
This is a wonderfully subtle story of inclusion, of remaining friends no matter how the circumstances change. Ava and Errol's acceptance of teddy's change of name is unconditional, they all remain friends no matter what happens. When Thomas becomes Tilly nothing changes between the group, Tilly simply states that she has never felt like a boy teddy and so now wishes to be known as Tilly not Thomas. Their friendship remains resolute.
It is also a tale of bravery, as teddy is concerned that when he tells Errol about his worry, Errol will no longer be his friend. Nothing is further from the truth. Errol's response is overwhelmingly positive and supportive, giving a model for others to follow which is reiterated when Ava joins them.
The mixed media illustrations are lovely, showing a young boy and his teddy doing the things mentioned in the text. They are inseparable, the crayon outlining the boy and his teddy against a spare background. I love the repetition of the activities at the start and end of the book, bringing the illustrations in a full circle, showing nothing has changed after teddy's announcement.
Both author and illustrator are from Melbourne, the transgender theme close to the author's heart and this book will become a book of choice when discussions arise at home and in the classroom about issues of gender.
Editor's note: There is a Friendship Activity pack available.